The beliefs and customs are as inextricably linked with Christmas as those which center around the mistletoe. Though many of us know that mistletoe is a plant, few are aware that it is parasitic—one which grows on and at the expense of another plant.
The word mistletoe comes from the Greek meaning “tree thief”, as this robber depends on trees for most of its sustenance.
Mistletoe For Christmas
The use of mistletoe for Christmas decorations and festivities goes back many centuries, and the superstitions revolving about it are numerous and varied. It was part of the religion of the ancient Greeks, and the Druids of Britain used it in their rites at the winter solstice.
The custom of kissing under the mistletoe, perhaps the best known, had its roots in a Scandinavian tale. According to the myth, Balder (counterpart for Apollo) received a charm from his mother Frigga (counterpart for Venus) against all injury from everything which sprang from the four elements: fire, water, air, and earth.
Loki, an evil spirit, bearing hostility against Balder, made an arrow from mistletoe which did not grow from any of the elements. The arrow was placed in the hands of the blind Helder, whom Loki instructed to aim at the seemingly invulnerable Balder.
The mistletoe dart struck Balder to the ground, and the tears of Frigga became the white berries of the mistletoe. Through the efforts of the gods, Balder was restored to life, and Frigga decreed that the plant must never again serve as an instrument of mischief.
Thereafter, Frigga, as the goddess of love and beauty, grateful for the return of her son, is said to bestow a kiss on anyone who passes under the mistletoe.
This Legend Gave Rise To Many Others
According to one, as the mistletoe hangs under the doorway or chandelier, each lad may claim his kiss, and as he does, he removes a berry and gives it to the maid. When none are left, the twig loses its spell, so that no more kisses are available. But, perhaps the most delightful is the belief that the maiden who does not receive any kisses under the mistletoe will not marry the ensuing year.
In addition to these interesting tales and traditions, mistletoe has been revered through the centuries as an emblem of love and friendship.
A word of caution about the berries of mistletoe, and those of the American holly, too. They are poisonous when eaten, so it is best to place them out of the reach of children and pets.
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